It's hard to explain over the internet but anothre way is that you were blessed with more hope about things and sometimes in medicine or other professions that peoples frustration grow and turn into feelings that had the best intentions but when they come out?
It sounds insensitive/ jaded to the person they actually went to school for years to care for. I also feel and from experience that if you want them to say something ......anything positive that you need to take the lead in this. You could say to her aren't we a negative nelly? anything positve to say Doc?
I've also come to find in certain examples that when people yell it shows they care but also might be over whelmed at the moument.
Also before unleashing an evil monkey on her (smile) consider that she might have personal feelings about this and it comes out in the wrong venue. Meaning maybe she is a carrier of something and choose not to have kids? or has a family member that is struggling with children that have more needs. I've had Doctors burst into tears infront of me after being insensitive. Cough and I've made doctors cry ...men actually because I was insensitive. Nobody is perfect but if she makes you uncomfortable then maybe someone else could better serve your child?
Have you heard of ARC?
