Remaining a virgin until you are married is an AMAZING display of self respect and self control!!! Something very few people have in our society today!! Also, having your husband be the ONLY man who has ever seen and been inside of you is such a secure & safe feeling. Men LOVE marrying a virgin. Of course, a man who just wants a little fun for a night or a couple of weeks would not admit to that, nor would a young man even be aware of that appeal. I am 46 yrs old and was promiscuis in my teens and 20's. I really thought sex was what you did as a part of getting to know someone, just another activity on a Friday night!! I was fooled and I believed a lie!! Sure you can have fun during sex with a stranger, a boyfriend, but that lust does not last. I wanted the long lasting LOVE, the kind that is deep, unconditional and committed. The only way to get that kind of love is through self respect, self control and TIME.
Anyway, the size of your vagina is not the determining factor of who you are!! Also, don't let a MOVIE tell you who you are!! Do you think a person who got their hand cut off in an accident is less than a person? How about a woman who had her breast removed from cancer; someone who lost a kidney; a woman whose genitals are a little bigger; a man with a small penis; someone without an ear --- are any of these people less than who they are??????
When I was younger I let the world, movies, music, t.v., magazines and my family tell me that I am less than who I should be. Then, I learned what God said I am. I'm LOVED and BEAUTIFUL!!!
